I believe that creating a fulfilling sexually intimate experience is as nuanced and complex as you are.


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For those of us who long for the freedom of sexual expression, integrating our sexual self often feels like the missing piece for living a full life. Sometimes, the path to erotic enjoyment is obscured by shame, fear, lack of information, and confusion.

Coaching can help us recognize what we need to do to break through the roadblocks holding us back from sexual pleasure, connection, body acceptance, and intimate relationships ... with ourselves and others.

A little about me …

I am a queer, neurodiverse, multi-certified sexologist, sex educator, and coach with over a decade of experience teaching, writing, and coaching about sexual pleasure, sexual health, and the intersection of sex and body image.

My joy is working with individuals, couples, and groups, as they navigate developing deeper intimacy with themselves and others, accessing sex that is pleasurable and on their terms, intimacy that feels safe and cozy, and building a more empowered relationship with their sensuality, bodies and partners that feels genuine and accepting.

I believe in meeting you where you are. Whether you want to get your desire back, (re)discover and own your sexuality, work through sexual shame, or help you and your partner get more out of the sex your having I can help you get there in the ways that are most meaningful to you. I want to (re)ignite your curiosity and excitement for your sex life and your life in general.

Whatever your challenge or goal, I thrive off helping to shepherd you to get to where you want to be.

Kind Words

  • “Elle has helped thousands of women break free from the paralyzing challenges that hold them back from having the sex life they truly deserve.”

    Dr. Emily Morse
    Author + Host, Sex with Emily

  • “Elle Chase is one of the most dynamic and accomplished sex coaches working in the US today. A global expert and advocate for pleasure at any size, Elle is my go-to referral.”

    Cyndi Darnell
    Sex Therapist + Author

  • Elle Chase is a warm, friendly, and approachable coach. She is able to weave humor into the information she provides, and she has developed a kind of 'professional goofiness' that acts as a coaching superpower, giving clients a chance to laugh, take a breath, and feel genuinely comfortable discussing important and sensitive subject matter.

    Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE
    Sex + Relationships Educator
    Founder of Everyone Deserves Sex Ed