If you’re like me and didn’t get a whole lot of sex education while growing up, you’re not alone. Most people relied on their friends, schoolyard whispers, porn, and the internet to learn all about sex. While some information may be true, a lot is not. Being able to tell what is a fact and what is fiction makes a big difference when it comes to harm reduction, pleasure, and even pregnancy. I’m about to bust three of the myths you might have heard the most about.